Anyway, my point is.
If you have been missing for 15 years, and when you did not show any sign of concern before, is it fair that now I must be obedient to you? I mean, what I get, our relationship is friendship where you supply me with tuition fee and living necessities and I forgive what you have done and try my best not to burden you more.
It is not my option to call, am I right? But when you show your concern, especially with consulting a so-called auntie, whom I have never met before, and when she gives her opinion that sounds much of her impression on me - which I gather must come from her previous relationship from mom, don't you think I'm entitled to feel hurt?
Our relationship is not yet steady, and you bring this other woman along. Why can't you just let me be, if I fail and miserable, at least I held that responsibility myself and I wouldn't have to think of you. I do not want you to be one of my emotional attachments.